First off, let me discuss A who called over the weekend and who takes idiot to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL. To be honest, he deserves no mention here other than as a warning for other slaves. He seems to not “get” domination. Domination is not about you telling me what you want or like. It is also not about sitting back and expecting me to go all crazy dominating you — obviously DUH dipshit – it is a back and forth between mistress and sub. With the sub always being a respectful, obedient fucker. It does not mean that the sub will never get what they want — but it does mean that IF you do — it will be at my discretion. To be honest, I have no interest in hearing from him again because he is a drama queen who just needs to get off the domination wagon until he figures it out (or has the shit kicked out of him by someone who finds him to be as big of a loser as I do)
That said — let’s move on. I would like to say to good little subs and faggots but not quite yet.
Next, I had a chastity slave call. And I will use the term chastity slave VERY LOOSELY because while he wore a device (sort of) he seemed a bit clueless about what chastity was all about. And his mistress was his wife. So for me that is more of a couple “playing” than it is actually domination. Because a true domination relationship requires that a mistress really not care so much about your feelings — it is through that indifference that you grow as a submissive. He also did not understand prostate draining at all which is a HUGE part of chastity slavery. If you don’t get drained, you will get health problems — that simple. Why? Because chastity slaves are not permitted to orgasm and draining semen from your body is a natural part of a man’s health. So if you are fucking clueless about chastity training, visit a professional (or at least call one) before you go slapping on a device.
Now — the last bit of bitching — if you are a sub and you have a question about a call — you have permission to IM me. IM is not for visiting (we are not friends — I don’t chit chat or visit with subs!) IM is also not for getting “warmed up” If you are not ready to call, don’t expect me to get your stupid ass ready – go fuck off and hide your subbie ass in a corner until you are ready.
K – Now I have saved the best for last.
I have had a few fun subs call. As any good sub knows, I like REAL. Let me repeat that because some don’t get it —
I LIKE REAL
So when I have a subbie call and they are new and I explain this to them — I expect them to actually get it. So I was impressed when I had a new sub call R call last week and when he told me he was a toilet slave (and I silently rolled my eyes and thought about how he wanted some pathetic fantasy call). So I explained to him that if toilet slavery was what he was into, that was fine but I only do that for real so get a glass and get ready. To my surprise, he did that. And then launched into asking me about a variety of domination techniques and fetishes. Which is perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with asking questions. And there is nothing wrong with having an interest in a fetish but not being sure that you are going to be able to do it. So that said, R was a very refreshing little subbie, full of questions and I found him quite interesting and entertaining. Considering I am ready to fall asleep after a few minutes with lots of subs (other than a few of my CBT slaves, sissies and of course Tasha) this is a really serious compliment for a new subbie. Of course don’t go getting all fluffed up like a peacock, subbie R, I am more that happy to knock you down and humiliate you for your shortcomings — and you know exactly what I mean when I say SHORT – comings.
So enough about R — he was a good sub and he understood the fundamentals. Domination is DYNAMIC. It is not simply you calling and saying “dominate me”.
And I find it WAY BEYOND LAME when a subbie calls up and I asked what fetishes interest them and they say “I like to be dominated” or when I ask what kind of slave they are and they say ” a good one” or “a very submissive one” Like NO SHIT. You have to be responsive and participate. I am not here to fucking entertain your moron ass so when I ask you 40 million questions, it is because I have NOTHING to say to your dumb ass because you have failed as a sub to give me enough information up front.
So try to put in some effort subbies, I think you will find that you impress me a whole bunch more and of course impressing me is your path to happiness so it would be in your best interest to do that.
Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482
http://www.phonesexdomina.com
