Well I had a nice little chat with Tasha the other day as she was on her way to visit a very brutal male pro dom. And it struck me because Tasha, along with a couple of my other subs such as A and a couple of others actually GET the concept of domination. Since so many other DON’T get it — here it is.

“what kind of sub are you”
The most ANNOYING answer to this question is “a good one” or “a kinky one”. Both of those to me say “very stupid one!”

The most eye-opening experience for a sub is to visit a live domme. So while I enjoy dominating, abusing and educating my subs, it is a more profound process if you have pro domme experience to relive.

So my sub Tasha goes off to visit a pro domme and I hope he is the most THOROUGH domme EVER!

Now on to CBT. I had a very short call with C today for some CBT. I am not a fan of the UBER SHORT call. But he did perform well for such a short amount of time. I most enjoyed introducing him to the wonders of icy hot and all the ways that I know how to make it the most abusive lube ever.

Now to close, a bit on sissy Lucy. Lucy is a sub of mine who is in training, much like A and Tasha, but she finally finished her shoe shopping assignment and well, it was a very judgemental older lady who sold her the shoes — I hope it was extremely embarassing!

Mistress Marissa
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Well it has been a while since I blogged and I have been a very busy Mistress. I have had time to catch up with some of my favorites including Tasha the slut bag sissy — that would be the sissy part of this post. I mean, seriously, you are either in or you are out — and Tasha is ALL IN. I personally HATE feminization as a “pure fantasy” wank thing. What is the point when you can actually DRESS UP girlie, feel girlie and silky.. That is where the hot part, the adventure of being a sissy is. So either step it up and be like Tasha or move on.



Now moving on to more REALITY. I had a little toilet whore call me last week and well, same feeling. Toilet fantasies as a fantasy=S-T-U-P-I-D. Get real or go home. If you are not prepared to play with it being real, then this is not the fantasy for you (guess what — that goes for any fetish)

Ya — still not done — cock and ball torture. CBT is one of my FAVORITE fetishes — but again, I totally don’t get it as just a fantasy. I mean you can be the most extreme nasty cruel motherfucker when there is no reality and no consequence. But how do you know if this is for you if you don’t actually DO ANYTHING. So come on, get your CBT kit together and let’s go cause I want to hear you scream — I want you to push yourself past your comfort zone — so let’s get REAL.

And last and LEAST — the losers — I have had a rash of these — some who realize what a dipshit they are — others who sadly are as clueless as they are pathetic. But ya, if you actually have to ask if your dick is too small — then DUH — it must be!! And as for money slaves — if you are stupid enough to want to give it away just to hear me laugh — then give it all away loser.

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Now, don’t get me wrong. CBT is one of my most favorite things in the world. And I find it incredibly LAME to do it as pure fantasy — what is the fucking point. Same goes for toilet slavery as pure fantasy.

I had a slave call me – well, first IM me which to be honest, I am always a bit rude because I think all IMs are from wankers and dipshit losers – so he had to tell me all about his fantasy. For some pathetic reason, he thought I might give a shit. Which of course, I really don’t. Then when he said he was into CBT and toilet slavery and I told him the prep work for that type of phone sex call, he completely FREAKED OUT.

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAA — SO LAUGHING AT YOUR STUPID ASS

Then he proceeds to tell me that it scared him — yes, scared him – to think of toilet slavery as a real thing. Why the fuck would it be anything else. I mean why even bother.

Then he went on to tell me about “lite” CBT. Which personally I think the word lite should be reserved for beer and soft drinks, not CBT. It is cock and ball TORTURE — is it really something that we can lighten up. Again, while keeping it real because CBT as a fantasy is total crap. Why would I want to bother with you fantasizing — that is what violent porn is for loser — if you want to do a CBT phone sex call, then make it fucking real.

Get your shit together and get the stuff on my cbt list and call.

Turns out, little loser did call for a quick call — and confided that he was already missing a ball. Haha, how I enjoyed torturing the other — despite that fact that indeed, even though I was not doing “lite” cbt, he still was — little faggoty sissy slaps don’t really count as torture but wtf — maybe he will turn out to be a decent slave someday.

Mistress Marissa
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First off, let me discuss A who called over the weekend and who takes idiot to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL. To be honest, he deserves no mention here other than as a warning for other slaves. He seems to not “get” domination. Domination is not about you telling me what you want or like. It is also not about sitting back and expecting me to go all crazy dominating you — obviously DUH dipshit – it is a back and forth between mistress and sub. With the sub always being a respectful, obedient fucker. It does not mean that the sub will never get what they want — but it does mean that IF you do — it will be at my discretion. To be honest, I have no interest in hearing from him again because he is a drama queen who just needs to get off the domination wagon until he figures it out (or has the shit kicked out of him by someone who finds him to be as big of a loser as I do)

That said — let’s move on. I would like to say to good little subs and faggots but not quite yet.

Next, I had a chastity slave call. And I will use the term chastity slave VERY LOOSELY because while he wore a device (sort of) he seemed a bit clueless about what chastity was all about. And his mistress was his wife. So for me that is more of a couple “playing” than it is actually domination. Because a true domination relationship requires that a mistress really not care so much about your feelings — it is through that indifference that you grow as a submissive. He also did not understand prostate draining at all which is a HUGE part of chastity slavery. If you don’t get drained, you will get health problems — that simple. Why? Because chastity slaves are not permitted to orgasm and draining semen from your body is a natural part of a man’s health. So if you are fucking clueless about chastity training, visit a professional (or at least call one) before you go slapping on a device.

Now — the last bit of bitching — if you are a sub and you have a question about a call — you have permission to IM me. IM is not for visiting (we are not friends — I don’t chit chat or visit with subs!) IM is also not for getting “warmed up” If you are not ready to call, don’t expect me to get your stupid ass ready – go fuck off and hide your subbie ass in a corner until you are ready.

K – Now I have saved the best for last.

I have had a few fun subs call. As any good sub knows, I like REAL. Let me repeat that because some don’t get it —

I LIKE REAL

So when I have a subbie call and they are new and I explain this to them — I expect them to actually get it. So I was impressed when I had a new sub call R call last week and when he told me he was a toilet slave (and I silently rolled my eyes and thought about how he wanted some pathetic fantasy call). So I explained to him that if toilet slavery was what he was into, that was fine but I only do that for real so get a glass and get ready. To my surprise, he did that. And then launched into asking me about a variety of domination techniques and fetishes. Which is perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with asking questions. And there is nothing wrong with having an interest in a fetish but not being sure that you are going to be able to do it. So that said, R was a very refreshing little subbie, full of questions and I found him quite interesting and entertaining. Considering I am ready to fall asleep after a few minutes with lots of subs (other than a few of my CBT slaves, sissies and of course Tasha) this is a really serious compliment for a new subbie. Of course don’t go getting all fluffed up like a peacock, subbie R, I am more that happy to knock you down and humiliate you for your shortcomings — and you know exactly what I mean when I say SHORT – comings.

So enough about R — he was a good sub and he understood the fundamentals. Domination is DYNAMIC. It is not simply you calling and saying “dominate me”.

And I find it WAY BEYOND LAME when a subbie calls up and I asked what fetishes interest them and they say “I like to be dominated” or when I ask what kind of slave they are and they say ” a good one” or “a very submissive one” Like NO SHIT. You have to be responsive and participate. I am not here to fucking entertain your moron ass so when I ask you 40 million questions, it is because I have NOTHING to say to your dumb ass because you have failed as a sub to give me enough information up front.

So try to put in some effort subbies, I think you will find that you impress me a whole bunch more and of course impressing me is your path to happiness so it would be in your best interest to do that.

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482
http://www.phonesexdomina.com

YOU = STUPID SUBBIE LOSER

ME = SMART SASSY DOMINATRIX WHO TAKES NO SHIT

Simple, no?

It is that simple. And when it comes to financial domination, it really is that simple. There are girls who say they are dominant but know NOTHING, there are subbies who say they want to be dominated but haven’t a fucking clue past saying those words as to what kind of slave you are. It is time to get REAL subbie and get away from bullshit. If you truly want to be dominated, perhaps it is time for you to dig deep and decide that if you can’t figure out what kind of slave you will be — Then you will be forced to choose one of my favorites:

- Financial Slaves
- Humiliation Slave
- Sissy Faggot

So get real stupid and figure out what you are — or be prepared for me to choose for you — and be ready to accept the consequences.

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482