The psychology of it – oh who cares. While I enjoy a good cerebral investigation of a sub’s motivations when we are in session, I see no point in elaborating on a blog.

So leave it at this – if you are a financial slave, then get your ass to my spoil page and spend. Tributes should be ON TIME and GENEROUS.

Mistress Marissa
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Well Mistress was away for a few days but right before I left, I had a couple of subs check in. First, Lucy, who is due to tribute and will not be spoken of again until then – HA

Next to Tasha. She relayed her slutty little story of her latest assignment and well, Tasha is a perfect slut — not a whore because well, Tasha will give it away — no need to fork over a dime — lol

So then it was time for something that I have not done with Tasha for a while. It was time for some CBT. Tasha remembered why I like a condom when I perform CBT– hah — and it has NOTHING to do with anyone having an orgasm.

It was the perfect way to end the week!!

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482

For those WORTHY – don’t even think about asking for this unless you have served me consistently for a while — and even then you need to ask in your most submissive voice ON YOUR KNEES….. but for those worthy, my members only area has been updated with new recordings, a whole newly updated photo gallery (see the sample here and drool worms)

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482

Well I have had a new sissy under my training. And he knows who he is. He has had some wonderful assignments and is starting to really blossom as a little sissy faggot whore. Actually it goes beyond that. He takes his assignments with all the excitement of Tasha — and believe me — there are not many sissies who are so willing and so worthy of training.

He adds little wonderful details to his assignments. Like when I told him to do a boy-on-boy date, he kicked it up a notch by dressing like a little french maid, eating a teeny salad like a supermodel and having the hot lucky man he was seducing cum in his salad and used it for yummy creamy dressing.

Now that right there is what makes a sissy worthy — the WILLINGNESS!!!!

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482

Ya — still not done — cock and ball torture. CBT is one of my FAVORITE fetishes — but again, I totally don’t get it as just a fantasy. I mean you can be the most extreme nasty cruel motherfucker when there is no reality and no consequence. But how do you know if this is for you if you don’t actually DO ANYTHING. So come on, get your CBT kit together and let’s go cause I want to hear you scream — I want you to push yourself past your comfort zone — so let’s get REAL.

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482

DON’T FORGET TO VOTE!!!!!

Now, don’t get me wrong. CBT is one of my most favorite things in the world. And I find it incredibly LAME to do it as pure fantasy — what is the fucking point. Same goes for toilet slavery as pure fantasy.

I had a slave call me – well, first IM me which to be honest, I am always a bit rude because I think all IMs are from wankers and dipshit losers – so he had to tell me all about his fantasy. For some pathetic reason, he thought I might give a shit. Which of course, I really don’t. Then when he said he was into CBT and toilet slavery and I told him the prep work for that type of phone sex call, he completely FREAKED OUT.

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAA — SO LAUGHING AT YOUR STUPID ASS

Then he proceeds to tell me that it scared him — yes, scared him – to think of toilet slavery as a real thing. Why the fuck would it be anything else. I mean why even bother.

Then he went on to tell me about “lite” CBT. Which personally I think the word lite should be reserved for beer and soft drinks, not CBT. It is cock and ball TORTURE — is it really something that we can lighten up. Again, while keeping it real because CBT as a fantasy is total crap. Why would I want to bother with you fantasizing — that is what violent porn is for loser — if you want to do a CBT phone sex call, then make it fucking real.

Get your shit together and get the stuff on my cbt list and call.

Turns out, little loser did call for a quick call — and confided that he was already missing a ball. Haha, how I enjoyed torturing the other — despite that fact that indeed, even though I was not doing “lite” cbt, he still was — little faggoty sissy slaps don’t really count as torture but wtf — maybe he will turn out to be a decent slave someday.

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482
http://www.phonesexdomina.com/blog

DON’T FORGET TO VOTE!!!!!

First off, let me discuss A who called over the weekend and who takes idiot to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL. To be honest, he deserves no mention here other than as a warning for other slaves. He seems to not “get” domination. Domination is not about you telling me what you want or like. It is also not about sitting back and expecting me to go all crazy dominating you — obviously DUH dipshit – it is a back and forth between mistress and sub. With the sub always being a respectful, obedient fucker. It does not mean that the sub will never get what they want — but it does mean that IF you do — it will be at my discretion. To be honest, I have no interest in hearing from him again because he is a drama queen who just needs to get off the domination wagon until he figures it out (or has the shit kicked out of him by someone who finds him to be as big of a loser as I do)

That said — let’s move on. I would like to say to good little subs and faggots but not quite yet.

Next, I had a chastity slave call. And I will use the term chastity slave VERY LOOSELY because while he wore a device (sort of) he seemed a bit clueless about what chastity was all about. And his mistress was his wife. So for me that is more of a couple “playing” than it is actually domination. Because a true domination relationship requires that a mistress really not care so much about your feelings — it is through that indifference that you grow as a submissive. He also did not understand prostate draining at all which is a HUGE part of chastity slavery. If you don’t get drained, you will get health problems — that simple. Why? Because chastity slaves are not permitted to orgasm and draining semen from your body is a natural part of a man’s health. So if you are fucking clueless about chastity training, visit a professional (or at least call one) before you go slapping on a device.

Now — the last bit of bitching — if you are a sub and you have a question about a call — you have permission to IM me. IM is not for visiting (we are not friends — I don’t chit chat or visit with subs!) IM is also not for getting “warmed up” If you are not ready to call, don’t expect me to get your stupid ass ready – go fuck off and hide your subbie ass in a corner until you are ready.

K – Now I have saved the best for last.

I have had a few fun subs call. As any good sub knows, I like REAL. Let me repeat that because some don’t get it —

I LIKE REAL

So when I have a subbie call and they are new and I explain this to them — I expect them to actually get it. So I was impressed when I had a new sub call R call last week and when he told me he was a toilet slave (and I silently rolled my eyes and thought about how he wanted some pathetic fantasy call). So I explained to him that if toilet slavery was what he was into, that was fine but I only do that for real so get a glass and get ready. To my surprise, he did that. And then launched into asking me about a variety of domination techniques and fetishes. Which is perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with asking questions. And there is nothing wrong with having an interest in a fetish but not being sure that you are going to be able to do it. So that said, R was a very refreshing little subbie, full of questions and I found him quite interesting and entertaining. Considering I am ready to fall asleep after a few minutes with lots of subs (other than a few of my CBT slaves, sissies and of course Tasha) this is a really serious compliment for a new subbie. Of course don’t go getting all fluffed up like a peacock, subbie R, I am more that happy to knock you down and humiliate you for your shortcomings — and you know exactly what I mean when I say SHORT – comings.

So enough about R — he was a good sub and he understood the fundamentals. Domination is DYNAMIC. It is not simply you calling and saying “dominate me”.

And I find it WAY BEYOND LAME when a subbie calls up and I asked what fetishes interest them and they say “I like to be dominated” or when I ask what kind of slave they are and they say ” a good one” or “a very submissive one” Like NO SHIT. You have to be responsive and participate. I am not here to fucking entertain your moron ass so when I ask you 40 million questions, it is because I have NOTHING to say to your dumb ass because you have failed as a sub to give me enough information up front.

So try to put in some effort subbies, I think you will find that you impress me a whole bunch more and of course impressing me is your path to happiness so it would be in your best interest to do that.

Mistress Marissa
1-888-662-6482
http://www.phonesexdomina.com